There are some life transitions we choose, and others that arrive before we feel ready. Recently, our family moved my mother-in-law into memory care. Even when you know it is the right decision, that does not make it easy. There is grief in watching someone you love lose pieces of the life they once knew. There is grief in realizing that independence is changing. There is grief in packing belongings, making decisions about what comes with her and what stays behind, and knowin